What You Need to Know Before Becoming a Sub

If you are looking for a BDSM daddy, then you need to know how to be the best sub. This can seem a little strange in the beginning; learning how to let go and be open to someone being completely in control and ordering you around. Some of the things you need to know before becoming a sub include:

Educate Yourself

This is not a decision that you should make lightly. Before you take the plunge and become the sub, you need to educate yourself first. This is a different type of lifestyle that can be sexually satisfying. But if you are not careful, you will jump into something you are not prepared for. 

Determine if You are Really a Sub

Someone who is really meant to be a sub will find that the behaviours that come with this will come to them naturally. Their true desire is to please a more dominant person and they feel turned on. If this is not something that seems appealing to you, then being a sub may not be the right choice. 

Determine Your Level of Submission

There are different levels of submission and dominance. Some people like to use dominance and submission just to add in some spice. This could be a bit of light role-playing and bondage while others like to go hard-core into the mixture and will give over control to their Dominant in most areas of their lives. You get to choose how far you are willing to go but decide this ahead of time. 

Know Your Limits

Does the thought of being caned make you want to hide? Are there other items that you are not willing to do with your Dom? Then it is a good idea to know your limits ahead of time. There are likely to be at least a few things that will test your comfort along the way. Keep them in mind and stand firm on the limits through the process. 

Communicate

Nothing is more important than communication when it comes to your Dom/sub relationships. Do not be shy or it is not going to work out well for you. If you feel uncomfortable about sharing about sex and what turns you on or off, then it is time to get out of being a sub because this will not go well.

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