The Nature of Male BDSM

When it comes to BDSM, men and women enjoy things differently. Specifically for men, the roles of dominant and submissive can play different roles. There are plenty of things men can do to enjoy themselves. The key is having a partner who is equally interested in this type of exploration.

For the purposes of understanding male BDSM, this concept will be broken down into the ideas of dominance and submission. The key elements of BDSM all start with the ideas of dominance and submission, and for men, there’s no difference in this dynamic except with the role you play. The power exchange is the key to making this work, and you will enjoy yourself when you accept either role and put yourself fully into it – whether for a few hours or for much longer.

Being a Dominant in Male BDSM

The best part about being dominant in BDSM is that as a guy, you are in control. Being a dominant man is something that will most definitely excite you. The key to being a good dominant partner is that you have to have your submissive’s safety in mind the whole time. The goal is maximum pleasure for both, but the submissive is putting his or her safety in your hands. When this happens, you have a massive responsibility. However, don’t let the responsibility be something that is intimidating. It’s invigorating. You will have a lot of fun when you just let go but stay in tune with the partner. When they let you know something is good, keep at it, and when something is too much, pull back. Being a good dominant partner is all about listening. 

Being a Submissive in Male BDSM

A submissive man is much different, and there are several areas where submission can be quite interesting. If you just want to give up power to your partner, that’s certainly exciting. For a lot of men, giving up power and being submissive is exciting because all day, these men are powerful at their jobs. Instead, it’s an aphrodisiac to have someone else in charge. There are several levels to this. It could be individual play or you could be a swinger. To go the route of cuckoldry is a type of submission that most men are not prepared for. So, however you choose to be submissive, make sure you know the full context and lay out the rules ahead of time.

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